A. The first thing you need to do is seek out a cosmetic dentist in your local area and go for a consultation. the most important thing is to see if you can have a relationship with the dentist and a level of trust can be obtained. this may take a few visits to different dentist but once you find the right dentist i feel this will help with acceptance of treatment. alot of clinics offer free consultations so this research should not cost you any money. the other advantage of seeing a few dentists initially will be that they will formulate a plan of action with relevant costs which is important. hope this is helpful. i know its difficult but that first step needs to be made by yourself.