You are not alone. Most patients are scared of the dentist also. For your own dental health and well-being, it is imperative that you go to the dentist. It seems like you have more than just gingivitis and an appointment with a qualified dentist would be in your own best interest. With an exam, x-rays and whatever other diagnostic procedures are necessary, your dentist will come up with a diagnosis and the treatment plan. It is not the end of the world so give it a try. You have nothing to lose…except a few more teeth if you wait to long. Good luck to you and post any questions that you might have!!!