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Old 11-09-2008, 11:14 AM
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Hi, I am 20 years old and really really ashamed of my teeth. I haven't been to a dentist in years and last year I went through a severe state of depression where I was so bad I didn't want to do anything. I neglected hygiene and I neglected my teeth very badly...to the point where I was only brushing them once or twice a week.

They are at the point now where I think I actually have the worst teeth I have ever seen, which puts me off going to see a dentist because it will be embarrassing.

The enamel on a lot of my teeth is eroding and I think that if I continue to not see a dentist, they will either fall out or will erode to basically nothing since just brushing them obviously isn't going to bring back the bits of tooth that I have lost.

The front four teeth make me extremely paranoid. There's hardly anything left of two of them. I hate smiling and even talking to people. I often lower my head so they wont see the horrible state of my teeth.

I'm almost positive that a complete smile makeover is what's needed...but still there's that feeling of embarrassment there. Being currently unemployed, I know I'm not going to be able to afford any treatment anytime soon either.

The teeth aren't exactly sore...but they are very bad and just look really, really terrible. I know it's my own doing for not taking care of them and if I could go back in time I would but sadly, that isn't possible
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Old 11-09-2008, 11:58 AM
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I am sorry to hear about your circumstances.

I would recommend you book an appointment with a dentist to discuss your available options. You shouldn't be feeling this way.This way you will know what procedures are possible to make your mouth healthy, and to feel confident again.

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Old 04-29-2009, 04:15 PM
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I am also 20 years old and in the exact same position as yourself, I have extremeley bad teeth and the sight of them depresses me. I feel that they are the only thing holding me back in life yet I'm too ashamed and embarrased by them to do anything about them!

I'm only a student myself as well as a mother so can't exactly afford any sort of cosmetic surgey myself
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Old 06-04-2009, 10:01 PM
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Same here, i'm 21 and my teeth are getting worse and worse. I think the time is coming when I need something done, but I just can't bring myself to do anything about it. My family aren't aware of the full extent of my problems and I don't want them to know.
The condition of my teeth sound very much like Scouse88. I feel sorry for anyone going through what we are going through, I know first hand how horrible it is, it affects almost every part of life. I am lucky to have a job, despite being a very poor communicator due to my teeth, but still i'm not sure I could afford treatment. I also don't have the courage to show my teeth to anyone yet.
I think it's going to take something really drastic like a front tooth coming out to make me do something about it. I just hope I can build enough courage to do something before too much of life has passed me by, and I wish others the best of luck too.
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